Nebu'z Tips 'N' Tricks

Dear friends,

I would like to give you a small advice with respect to my yesterday's incident: And  am dedicating this article to the person which asked me the way to a street. And his unthankful action made me to think & leads me to putup here. I think that action is more than 1000 times valuable for me. AlhamdulillaaH.

that please dont expect any kinds of gratitude from anyone. Allah, the Almighty created his slaves so that they may worship & remember him, and he provided sustenance for them. So that they may be grateful to Him. But, many have worshiped other than Almighty ALLAH and the masses are thankful not to him,But to others bcz the charecteristic of ingratitude is widespread among humanbeings. So do not dismayed when you find that others forget your favours or disregard you kind acts. you can take an eg: of mine. Yesterday night one man asked me the way to a Street near my home. I described him clearly, but after geting all the details, he just went. With out saying a thanks, actualy  am not going to get anything by his thanking message, but still it hurts me little. But we dont know what was his situation and his mental stage at that time. May be he is going for an emergency or something like tat ALLAH Knws the best. Like that in other case some people might even despise you and make you an enemy for no other reason that that you have shown them Kindness.  In Holy Quran ALLAH says tat: (" And they could not find any cause to bear a grudge, expect that ALLAH and his messenger had enriched them of his bounty (Holy Qur'aaN : 9:74).) From among the ever-repeating pages of history is a story of a father and his son: The father raised his son, fed him, clothed him, and taught him, he would stay up nights so that his son could sleep, the father saved the foods with  taking in proper time and having very low food. In order to save his son's hungry so that his son could eat, and he would toil so that his son cud feel comfort. And when the son became Older and stronger,  he rewarded his father with Disobediance, disrespect and many other unlikness. Just imagine the father's heart.

So be at peace if you requited with ungratefulness for the good you have done. Rejoice in your knowledge that you will be rewarded from the One who has unlimited treasures at his disposal. Ya RazikurahmaaaaaaN, Ya allah. My dears this is not to say that you should refrain from preforming the acts of Kindness towards others: but the point is that you should be mentally prepared for ingratitude.

Perform the acts of Charity seeking ALLAH's pleasure alone. bcz with this attitude you will assuredly be successfull Inshaa AllaaaaH. The ungratful person cannot really harm you: praise ALLAH that the person is the Misbehave and in case of yours you are the obediant & respectful slave of Almighty ALLAH. Also remember that the hand that gives is better that the hand that receives. So our policy of unxpetness in any kinds of gratitude from anyone is suitalbe every where. Am I correct dears.? In Qura'aaN ALLAH says: ( We feed you seeking Allah's Countenance only. We wish you no rewards, nor thanks from you) Holy (Qura'aaN 76: 9) Realy this ayath strikes my heart well. SubhanallaaaaH. Many peoples, including me are shocked at the nature of Ingratitudeness in others as though they have never come across this verse and others like it: ( And when harm touches man, he invokes us, lying down on his side or sitting or standing. But when we  have removed his harm from him, He passes on  his way as if he had never Invoked us for a harm that touched him - Holy Qura'aaN: 10:12) Can we disagree this my dears....?????? never because during exams have God fearing we are...? but what abt the case after our exams or after our results.....? Hence do not be in a state of agitation if you give someone a Pen or a Pencil as a gift and he uses it to contempt you, or if you give a walking stick to tip upon and he strikes you with it. As I pointed out earlier, most human beings are ungrateful to their Lord Almighty ALLAH. The best example i can give you is 24 hours we are breathing, our bloods are circulating all over the body. But how many of us are thanking the Lord, when ever if we gets free time. How many of us are disobey to our Lords commands. So what treatment or punishment should we expect.? May the almighty ALLAH  forgive our known & unknown sins. And grace all of us to thank & worship him at each and every situation not only in pleassure times. In all times..

Hope we all will be try to be a very respectful slave of him.

WassaLaaaaaaM